Find out in 3 minutes with the updated Creation of Us Assessment  ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌ ‌

July 19, 2026   |   Read online What's Missing In Your Marriage (It's Not What You Think) Find out in 3 minutes with the updated Creation of Us Assessment Most struggling marriages don't have a love problem. The couples I talk to love each other. They're committed. They're trying. And yet something still feels off. They're managing a household together, but living parallel lives. Roommates with a shared calendar. Here's what I've learned after years of working with couples: what's missing usually isn't more date nights, better communication techniques, or a bigger house. What's missing is a sense of Us. On this week's episode of the Change the Odds Podcast, I break down why so many marriages quietly drift from "us" back to "you and me" — and how to reverse it: What's Missing In Your Marriage? (EP104) Prefer audio? Listen to the full episode here. So how strong is your sense of Us? Don't guess. Measure it. I just updated The Creation of Us Assessment — a short, free tool that shows you exactly where your marriage stands and where the two of you have the most room to grow. It takes about three minutes, and most couples tell me the results name something they've felt for years but couldn't put into words. Take it yourself. Better yet, take it separately from your spouse and compare answers over coffee. That conversation alone is worth the three minutes. Take the Free Assessment ⏳ Only 2 Weeks Left: Pre-Order & Enter the Napa Retreat Giveaway If the assessment reveals your marriage needs a stronger sense of Us, my new book The Creation of Us is the roadmap. And right now, pre-ordering comes with a bonus: every pre-order can be entered to win a couples retreat in Napa. Two simple steps: Pre-order The Creation of Us on Amazon Enter your order information here to claim your giveaway entry The giveaway closes in two weeks — after that, the Napa door shuts for good. Pre-Order on Amazon Your marriage doesn't change by accident. It changes by choice. Make a choice today to have a better marriage tomorrow. Blessings, Kevin P.S. If you only click one link today, make it the assessment. You can't strengthen what you haven't measured and three minutes from now, you'll know exactly where to start. P.P.S. For the first time ever, I'm leading a small coaching group through The Creation of Us — live, with me, walking through it together. Spots are filling up, and once they're gone, they're gone. Grab your spot in the cohort here. You are receiving the Change The Odds Newsletter because you have subscribed either through kevinathompson.com; changetheodds.com, through attending a conference with Kevin, or by taking the Friends, Partners & Lovers Marriage Assessment. Update your email preferences or unsubscribe here © 2026 Change The Odds 1515 Ridgeview Cir Auburn, CA 95603, United States Powered by beehiiv Terms of Service